DEAR DEIDRE: MY boyfriend doesn’t last long in bed, especially when I give him oral sex, and he’s really losing his confidence.
How can I help him last longer and stop worrying about it?
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The longest it has lasted is about five minutes and the shortest is probably about two and a half minutes.
It actually doesn’t bother me at all, especially since I’ve dated guys that last too long and that’s a bigger problem for me.
He is 29 and I am 27 and we have a good sex life apart from this problem.
He won’t go to the doctor because he’s too embarrassed.
He only lost his virginity a year before he married me.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Since your boyfriend is a relatively latecomer to having a sex life, he may not have learned to control himself yet and this is completely normal.
To take the pressure off your boyfriend, it might be better to focus on you so you’re really excited and almost ready to climax when he walks in on you.
This will help him relax about his own performance and show that good sex for a woman is all about stimulation of the clitoris and the surrounding area.
I will also send you my package called Do you want to last longer? what will help.