Welcome to How I do it the series where we give you a seven day in a week look into a stranger’s sex life.
For this week’s episode, we hear from Damian, who earns extra money as an escort – not out of financial need, but because he likes it.
“I just enjoy meeting interesting new people and fulfilling their sexual desires,” he explains.
Damian first got involved in escorting when he confided in a friend that he is “a very sexual person” who finds “great satisfaction” in exceeding the expectations of his sexual partners.
This friend knew someone who ran an escort agency, so she passed on Damian’s details, and the rest is history.
“Honestly, I’m just a normal guy with a high sex drive,” he says. “Guiding is much more common than you may realize.”
Now he is a middle manager in a German company during the day and takes care of his customers at night…
Warning: The following, as you might imagine, is not safe for work…
Monday
I usually don’t schedule dates on the first two days of the week as they are usually blocked by a lot of business meetings. However, this Monday is a holiday in Germany (where I currently live) so I accepted a date request at short notice. I actually broke up a pub crawl with my friends on a Sunday night to make it work — I always want to be prepared and fit for my dates.
I already knew the woman I was to meet on this date through previous bookings. I have to say, it’s great when someone becomes a regular; for me, the interpersonal connection this brings is very important. The more often you meet, the more beautiful the sex becomes.
Our date takes place at her house. The city is located on a large river and we agree to take a short walk there first. Then when we get to it, we’ll go to her apartment and make ourselves comfortable. We cuddle and have intense and slowly increasing foreplay. Then we have sex twice and end the afternoon with a cigarette on her balcony.
Tuesday
Today I am back in the office. I attended several meetings and packed my suitcase for an upcoming business trip in the afternoon. Then I meet a friend and we go for a walk with my dog. In the evening I somehow manage to motivate myself to do some strength training; exercise is very important to me, I like to feel fit and healthy.
Wednesday
My morning starts early today as I am on my way to Switzerland for a business trip. I travel by train so that I can spend my time productively on the road. On business trips like this, I like to inform my escort agency, Kaufmich, of my whereabouts to check for possible dates.
Since my first day in Switzerland will be quite busy and stressful, I have indicated that I will be available for bookings on Thursday evening. Within just a few hours, a date request came in, which I accepted after quickly checking out the client.
Thursday
I slept badly and woke up at 05:30. Because I can’t sleep, I go jogging, take a long shower, have a leisurely breakfast and go to the office until 4 pm.
I then have all the time to prepare my date, which I am happy about. My date is at 7:30 PM at a tapas bar not far from my hotel; since I like to familiarize myself with date locations in advance, I drop by the bar after work. It is stylishly decorated and there are some darker, more intimate corners for relaxed conversation – perfect.
After freshening up, I arrive at 7:10 PM. I’m sitting at the bar waiting and ordering a drink; a very charming waitress serves me, our eyes meet and we have a moment – she is definitely flirting with me.
My client arrives and we greet each other warmly, I notice she is a little nervous. However, I am also a bit nervous – first encounters are always more special! For me, building a strong bond is essential for great sex, so for all first dates I add three hours – at my own expense – to my contract to get to know the client.
Without a feel-good atmosphere and chemistry, our sex won’t be as good as it could be. Although tonight is an overnight stay, we can of course take the time to get to know each other.
The pretty waitress who served me keeps looking at me; we smile at each other, and i’m definitely attracted to her, but i stay professional and focus on my date. My client has dressed up for the occasion; she is really attractive and when we get back to the hotel she takes off her dress to show me the beautiful lingerie she is wearing underneath.
I start with a massage and after a short time she turns under me so that I am astride her. She pulls me in by my tie and starts kissing my neck which I love. My head sinks between her thighs; she likes oral sex so i make that a priority.
After she’s done, we make ourselves comfortable, chat some more, and settle back into bed for wonderful, intense, tender sex. She explosively cums a second time while straddling me.
Friday
When I wake up the next morning, my date is already in the shower. Shortly afterwards we say goodbye and agree that she will be kept informed when I visit the city again.
I go back to bed for a short nap and then catch the train home. I can’t stop thinking about last night’s waitress… I’m definitely going back to that bar.
I work on the train, pick up my dog from my parents and relax the rest of the day.
Saturday
The weather is great today, so my morning starts with a 10km walk with my dog. We then have lunch and my sister comes to visit with my nephew; we play soccer together and enjoy the day.
Around 3 pm I start preparing for my date that evening. This is a special request; I’m going to meet a few. The husband wants me to have sex with his wife in front of him; he gets jealous and she loves to see this anger build up in him.
I am a bit apprehensive at first, but soon after arriving I see that they are excited and I feel completely at ease.
I get to know them both over dinner at their house. The chemistry between us is good and I am confident that this is going to be a great session.
The man leaves us to chat over a glass of wine. There is a camera in the living room, so he can watch us from his smartphone. She slides her chair closer and closer to mine as I move back and forth, sliding my knee up her legs and under her dress. After a while she kneels down in front of me, loosens my belt, drops my pants and slowly caresses my penis with her tongue. This culminates in a solid blowjob and the jealousy of her husband – who is now in the room watching us – is clearly noticeable.
We move into the bedroom and have extended sex in many different positions, all while her partner watches. I then get in the shower and when I come back they have sex. I ask if I can watch and they gesture me to say yes.
Then I leave the couple to themselves and drive home, where my dog is excited to see me.
Sunday
Today it is very quiet; I sleep, take a shorter walk with my dog when it rains, and relax on the couch.
I am also preparing for another busy week. Alas, tomorrow is a real Monday…if only there was another holiday.
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