A BUXOM lady has explained why her busty “blessing” can actually be very traumatizing.
The petite lady took to Reddit where she shared the harsh realities of life with a big chest.
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The anonymous user told a story in the thread r/bigboobproblems with her colleagues commenting on her body.
She said she had to buy an XXL jacket for work to make sure it would zip up all the way.
This decision sparked a huge break room conversation about how “blessed” she is.
“And then suddenly everyone is talking about breasts, their sister who has big breasts that they envy, etc.
The poor girl said it was so overwhelming that she had to walk out of the room and cry.
“I’m in so much pain all the time. There are times when I can’t walk, my back hurts so much,” she wrote.
“I’m ‘the big boob girl’ for everyone.”
She went on to say that her “blessing” has actually brought her nothing but trauma.
“I had to wear a bra when I was 9. A boy put his hands in my shirt when I was 11,” she said.
“I will say I was harassed when it was more than that when I was 15. And no one cares.”
The Redditor said she often feels “betrayed” by her body and is even concerned about her upcoming wedding because of the attention people are drawing to her chest.
“How can I feel confident and love myself and my body when it seems like my body is failing me at every opportunity?” she asked.
Fellow members of the big-breasted community rushed to her to commiserate, agreeing that other people’s positive comments don’t really help.
“I feel your pain! I hate having big boobs,” someone replied.
“I wish I had some words of wisdom for you, but I also struggle to be happy with my body.
“I think if the women who think we’re so lucky had to live with big breasts, they’d change their mind after experiencing the reality of it.”
However, another lady encouraged her and said that with the right underwear, big breasts don’t have to be so bad.
“I used to hate my breasts before I learned how to fit a bra correctly and found options for larger cup sizes!” she wrote.
“The day I went from the ugly beige granny style bra that didn’t fit right to a beautiful Panache bra in the right size, my life changed and I felt completely different about my body!”
The original poster replied that she actually ordered a nice bra earlier that day.
“Honestly, most of my bras come from discount packs at Walmart… step by step!” she wrote.
“This sub really encouraged me to treat myself to a nicer bra.”