If you’ve been to girls, they, and / or gay bathrooms, you may have made friends there.
The bathroom when you’re out at night is one of the most uplifting places in the world. Here, the gentle words from strangers drown out anxiety, as we talk to each other, for the most well-known reason for cocktail glasses. I have been friends for many years.
And the next time you go out and feel shared, you’ll hear the chorus “throw them away” from the two autonomous regions, so you’re disappointing you and saddening the person you’re dating ..
According to a survey of 2,000 British people aged 18-45 by Dusk, a nightlife discovery and free drink app, 59% use bars, pubs, or nightclub bathrooms from strangers. We give and receive advice on life and relationships.
What’s more, 18% said they helped strangers quit their jobs, one in five ended relationships, and one in five was the result of advice from strangers they met in the toilet. Started a new relationship as.
But as soon as these beautiful bathroom bonds are formed, they can disappear. There may be a number of reasons why you forgot to exchange names, Uber arrived, or were vaguely drunk and confused. In any case, it’s no wonder that more than half (55%) are still thinking about the people they meet.
Now, for those looking to reconnect with Besty in the bathroom, Dusk wants to help.
With their Bathroom BFFs service, people upload stories about friends they meet on the go at night and try to match them with the people they are looking for.
Someone like Catherine is looking for someone who was having trouble with a boy when he met.
“There was a girl crying in the Barrio Shoreditch toilet. My boyfriend wasn’t very responsive and I wasn’t good at communicating,” she wrote. “He was basically ignoring her.
“We gathered around her and persuaded her to throw him away because he wasn’t worth her time. She did that and had a great time that night. And we all spent the rest of the night with her.
And someone who submitted her search request as a “blond girl” helped me make a big cosmetic decision.
She writes: She’s heard at a bar in London discussing with her friends whether a woman will have breast augmentation surgery. Later that night she introduced herself to me in the bathroom and she said she had to listen to my combo. She was doing her job a few months ago and became completely topless and let me fix her new boobs for her “quality rating”.
“Both she and her boobs were great, and I kept getting numbers for her surgeon, and now I have my own great pair. Every time I look down, I remember her. I wish I could find someone to thank her. “
Dusk co-founder Sophie Abrahamovitch said: ‘Bars, pubs and nightclub bathrooms occupy most of the night out. People go to the bathroom for many reasons other than obvious, such as refreshing, having a DMC, or needing space for a little “recovery.”
“We all talked after a few drinks and used these spaces to unload and receive unqualified advice. And in some cases, these interactions make life forever. It can be turned into a beautiful little nightlife phenomenon. “
Psychotherapist and relationship expert Lucy Beresford has a theory about why we are more open in these situations.
She said:’When chatting with strangers, they are blank canvases and we project them many of our own desires and attributes. When they react kindly, it makes us feel very much seen and heard.
“They can give us concise, objective, and often brutal advice on dilemmas and problems that other people in our lives may be nervous about speaking out. . “
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