Relationship leaders share expert advice on what to do if you fall into a love triangle.
UK-based dating and relationship coach Kate Mansfield told FEMAIL that in most cases, love triangle scenarios tell a lot about a person’s self-esteem.
Described this situation as a “world of pain” for almost everyone involved, Kate said it was best to put the love triangle in the bud before it would do a lot of damage.
She explained that it rarely has a happy ending-and it’s best to get out before someone gets hurt.
Relationship expert Kate Mansfield describes the love triangle as a “world of pain” for those involved and shares tips for getting out of the love triangle (stock image).
Why is it a love triangle?
According to Kate, it’s unlikely that people will randomly “end” into a love triangle, and very often it’s a deep-seated anxiety that unfolds in their love life.
She states: “People who” find themselves “in all sorts of unfortunate relationship scenarios, especially love triangles, need help to learn how to consciously create a life of love that makes them truly happy. “
Described the love triangle as “the world of pain, longing, and drama,” Kate added that looking inside can often explain why a person is in such a situation.
“It’s usually a sign that you and others aren’t available, and it’s also a fear of both commitments,” she explained.
Kate added: “A love triangle is often formed between two people who reflect some kind of emotional dysfunction or unresolved trauma.”
Can you build a happy relationship after a love triangle?
For those in a love triangle, Kate has some bad news-it’s very unlikely that you’ll get the results you want.
Kate said: I don’t advise it. “
She added:
For those who feel she is in love with them, this is very likely a sign of an intimacy problem and can be resolved by choosing one of them to build a relationship. I added that I couldn’t.
“You may be in the wrong relationship, but to make a good, sound decision, it’s probably best to stay alone for a while and clearly see which person is right for you.” Kate advised.
What if I’m stuck in a love triangle?
For Kate, the answer is simple. She is to focus on herself.
“Start really investing in your own personal development. With the help of an expert, find out why you are drawn into such a difficult and painful situation,” she said.
Kate (pictured) said that love triangles are usually somehow emotionally unavailable, stressing that the situation is rarely a happy ending for those involved.
“If you find yourself competing with someone who is already married or has an attachment, ask yourself. Is this a pattern? I don’t believe it really deserves love and dedication. why?
“This is a form of self-renunciation, always a choice, and you didn’t happen to find yourself.”
Kate added that he never advises people to wait for others because it can lead to a broken heart.
She said: “If it was intended, you would be together when the time comes.”
Often, a love triangle can form at the dating stage when no one in the love triangle is devoted.
However, the situation can manifest itself as extramarital negotiations when one person is fooling a partner with another.
For people in this situation, Kate’s advice is clear.
She said:’The incident can be a serious relationship, but it’s rare and do you really want it in your conscience? Can you trust your partner in the future knowing they are trying to cheat?
“Don’t make fun of yourself that it’s a one-off thing, it’s a sign of that person’s personality. Be careful!”
She added that only 1% of cases actually result in marriage-so keep in mind that you find yourself falling for someone who has already been taken. please give me.
“The odds aren’t big,” Kate said.
How do you go from the love triangle?
“There’s no shortage of great singles out there,” Kate said, advising people to date and explore after leaving the love triangle situation.
She added that for those who are struggling to make unhealthy choices in a romantic life, it is not shameful to get professional help to understand why.
Most importantly, Kate wants people to think about how they got into the situation in the first place.
“If you get caught up in a love triangle, forgive yourself and others and be honest with yourself and why you chose this,” she said.
Kate added:
“If this is the case, you will benefit from learning about your own unconscious patterns and what a healthy relationship is.”
She said there was hope for those who could come out of the love triangle and find a happy and loving relationship completely.
Kate said: “Start with you, live yourself perfectly and work on having boundaries.”